Id rather give help than money.
I mean,, money doesnt last,, but the memories of someone helping you stays.
I know Ive been in situations where I needed help and no one was there ( not even so called freinds).
But on the other hand, I was allways the one that helped people that needed it, but where were they when I needed help? Nowhere.
So you know,, Its a little rough for me to help many people anymore,,then again I feel guilty for NOT helping them.
Its a wierd Catch 22 for me.