Death and the related free for all with "stuff" can really bring out the worst in people. Sorry you have to go through this.
thanks all, wife is going through hell atm.
Im just here to support her
When their mother died she didnt live near her yet accepted a large amount of money without a quibble, where as now the opposite because her sister wants all the money as she lived near him and is doing nothing to help, I suppose living the life of never working and having hand outs encourages this attitude and her children's.
Doesnt matter that my wife has to travel to Oxford to sort all the monies / paperwork out etc etc.