^^ I just can't remove myself completely though. That's why some people look at a guy and drool.. while others just shrug. Like someone like Rob Pattison ..I can see why women think he's hot.. but I just look at him and go 'ew, uckie'
And.. I don't have to respect and feel some sort of intellectual or 'cause driven' connection to every musician, artist, or actor that I think is hot.. but it sure helps. It definitely helps as to whether I think they're super hot.. or just 'meh, whatever'..'take him, or leave him'. And some guys.. I just don't get at all.. even though sooo many people think they're cute. In those cases it's just like glancing at a statue at a musem, then passing by it quickly so you can get to a piece you really want to look at, and feel a passion for.
All guys are cute. Some are super uber cuties. Few guys are sexy.