I'm rooted in logic. Always have been. Never bought into the idea of spirits, but my Grandma brought me up to be a good catholic, so when I said goodbye to her before moving to Queensland, I told her to visit me in my dreams when she died, as she believed in life after death (heaven).
So about 8 months later I was asleep, dreaming I was at a party with all these people there I didn't really know. It was a strange party and I felt very unsettled being there. As I stood there looking around I saw my cousin walking towards me with some people I didn't recognise, but I new he was dead. I started bawling in grief as he and were very close when we were growing-up. As he got closers he saw that I was terribly upset, so he said "It's okay Mark, it's not Grant it's me..." and started to pull a mask off.
That was it, I knew I was dreaming and I woke myself up and sat bolt upright crying like a baby. My girlfriend freaked and asked me what was wrong so I told her my dream. She comforted me and reassured me that it was a dream and that my cousin is not likely to be dead and I went back to sleep.
In the morning I was woken up by the phone ringing, it was my mum. First thing I said said to her was "Who's dead?" She told me Grandma had passed earlier that morning. I asked what time, and she told me around 3am, which was the same time I had my dream. I realised that it was Grandma behind the mask I refused to see removed completely
Now, if I had been told Grandma had died then had the dream, logic would tell me that I dreamt Grandma was visiting me because I told her to and my subconscious was putting that into my dream, but I didn't know that.
It still freaks me out to tell that story, and when I do, I get dicks telling me they can explain it using science (even though the science of dreams is still very thin).
I trust in science and know it can explain most strange phenomena, but there is still things that are 'best guess'. Got me the latest issue of New Scientist and the cover has three questions: "Consciousness. What is it? Why do we have it? What else has it?"
I need to find the time to read the magazine now as it is something that has perplexed me ever since I can remember.
(there you go)